By Brett Bremer
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October 26, 2020
Last year, Lydia Cole, then a Thornapple-Kellogg junior, was the star of the Delton Kellogg/Thornapple Kellogg/Hastings varsity girls swim team's annual Cancer Awareness Meet. Cole had been diagnosed with pancreatic neuroendocrine tumors at the end of her sophomore year. She'd continued to swim the 2019-20 season while undergoing chemotherapy treatments, and her team dedicated the Cancer Awareness Meet to supporting Cole and her family, using the slogan “Team Lydia.” Cole — who was interviewed prior to the 2019 Cancer Awareness Meet — said cancer scared her less than it had. Swimming with her team and staying busy kept cancer from being the focus of her life. She had found a sense of normalcy and felt confident she could beat cancer. “The diagnosis isn't the tough part. It is the rest of it, going through scans and now knowing what the outcome is going to be and when the outcome isn't so great having to deal with it. I feel like I have handled it a lot better than I expected. It doesn't scare me that much anymore, because I know that I can beat it,” Cole said. Cole, 16, died just a few months later in January. Thursday, the DK/TK/Hastings girls again donned their pink swim caps — still adorned with “#teamLydia” — as they hosted the Wayland girls swim team for the 2020 Cancer Awareness Meet. They wrote Cole's name — along with the names of others who have fought or continue to fight cancer — in thick pink marker on their backs, shoulders, arms and legs. In keeping with tradition, swimmers on both teams wore pink caps and tied pink ribbons on their suits. Pink balloons and ribbons decorated the pool area, along with pink signs that read “Two teams, one hope.” DK/TK/Hastings Coach Carl Schoessel started the Cancer Awareness Meet after his wife, Loretta Schoessel, began losing her battle with breast cancer; she died in 2011. Since then, Schoessel and his team raise money for the American Cancer Society at the meet and, over the years, have donated several thousand dollars to the society. Last year's proceedings were given to Cole's family to help cover the cost of her treatments; this year they were donated to the Lydia Cole Scholarship Fund, in addition to the Cancer Awareness Society. Loretta Schoessel's name, along with Cole's, was written on each of the DK/TK/Hastings athletes. It was a big night for DK/TK/Hastings swim team's season, too. They went into the meet undefeated with a 4-0 record in the OK Rainbow Tier II conference, while the Wayland team was 3-1 in conference duals. Schoessel kicked off the meet by recognizing Cole's family and noted this event would not be like previous Cancer Awareness meets. “Due to COVID, many of the things we've done at this meet in past years won't be able to be done tonight,” Schoessel said, referring to a bake sale, raffle and chuck-a-duck fundraiser – where spectators through rubber ducks from the balcony into a life ring in the pool. Without these traditional modes of fundraising, the team has raised money by asking family members, friends and others for donations. Additionally, spectators could donate by putting money in buckets labeled either for the Lydia Cole Scholarship Fund or Cancer Awareness Society, depending on what they wanted their donation to support. While the total funds raised from Thursday's meet have yet to be counted, Schoessel said Friday they might have raised a few thousand dollars. “From what I've been told and what I saw, it looks like we're going to easily get a couple thousand dollars,” Schoessel said. The meet began with a flurry of activity as athletes paced the poolside cheering passionately for teammates, their voices echoing off the tiled room, through the crowd, and up into the rafters. The swimmers approached the pool, ready to complete their events. They paused only to dedicate races to those who've been impacted by cancer, reading their names aloud before the event began. “Before each event, the names of the people we want to honor and remember will be announced,” Schoessel said. The 100-yard breast stroke event was dedicated to Cole; it was her favorite event. The meet ended with even more intensity than it started, as the Wayland girls beat the DK/TK/Hastings swimmers by only 1 point, with a score to 93-92. Before the meet, DK/TK/Hastings was in first place in its conference; now, the team is tied with Wayland for first place. “We knew it was going to be very close going in. In fact, I had told the girls it could come down to a one-point lead,” Schoessel said. “There's no hard feelings because we really value this meet.” “We would have loved to have won.” The final words of Coach Schoessel's speech, which began the meet, ring true for the DK/TK/Hastings girls as they look to come back from Thursday's defeat. “Finally, the motto of our meet: Support the fighters, admire the survivors, honor the taken,” Schoessel said, “and never, ever give up hope.”